Cousin Camp | Family-Style

Cousin Camp (affectionately known in our family as Camp Cece) was in jeopardy!

Every summer my husband and I host a camp for the potty-trained members of our tribe of eight grandchildren.  This year that meant seven out of eight were eligible. But because of Covid-19-induced quarantines, we weren’t sure we could find a place open for business and suitable for safe-distancing.

When our grandchildren were small, we hosted a preschool Bug Camp, and then a Secret Agent Camp. When they got older, we camped at Jellystone Park, and took a trip to the Mississippi Gulf Coast.

For months our grandchildren have begged us to tell them where our seventh annual cousin camp would be, so cancelling the camp wasn’t an option for us.

Instead, we got creative.

First we rented a five-bedroom house at Crystal Beach in Destin, Florida.

house - family style cousin camp

 

Then, since we knew we couldn’t manage all eight grandchildren in the sand and waves by ourselves, my husband and I asked our three daughters and their husbands to join us for four days of family games and competitions!

Finally, we asked my 86-year-old mother to return as a camp counselor and, for the seventh time, she said yes!

To help with planning, our daughters agreed to take turns hosting supper each night.

cups with names-family style cousin camp

 

Cousin Camp Teams

Since my daughters and my mom all live in different towns, we all spent the first day of camp driving to the beach.

When we met up at the beach house, we immediately hit the beach for group photos.

the titus woman

 

 

Back at the house, it was time for Team Discovery. Days ahead of time, my husband and I had arranged our family members into three teams, mixing families up and making sure each team was equally matched. Then, we assigned each team a color.

As I announced the teams, everyone hooped and hollered and proudly sported their team colors with bright bandanas.

 

bandanas-family style cousin camp

 

Next I explained that all the teams would compete in activities each day for points. At the end of camp, the highest-scoring team would earn the honor of being named Camp CeCe Champ.

With excitement in high gear, I reminded my grandchildren that, even though everyone wanted to be Camp CeCe Champs, we would strive to be family first and champions second. In other words, being critical of each other wouldn’t be tolerated and poor sportsmanship would cost their teams points.

(As unbelievable as it sounds, not one grandchild ever had to be corrected for poor sportsmanship or an unkind comment. Hard to believe, I know. But they took my instructions to heart.)

To end the evening, we threw a beach ball around the room and each person had to answer the question that landed under his or her right pointer finger.

 

beach ball with questions-family style cousin camp

 

Sandcastles and belly flops

A sandcastle contest was our first day’s cousin camp activity. Teams were given baggies and food coloring so they could dye sand and add a little color to their creations.

sand castle-family style cousin camp

sand castle-family style cousin camp

Later, at the pool, we enjoyed some entertaining belly flop and canon ball competitions!

A charcuterie board was a huge hit for supper!

charcuterie-family style cousin camp

 

After dark, we returned to the beach for a hermit crab hunting contest. We awarded points for the largest number of crabs caught and the biggest crab.

 

hunting for hermit crabs-family style cousin camp

 

Old-fashioned cousin camp fun

Competitiveness reached a new level on the second day with relay games on the beach!

From an old-fashioned three-legged race to dropping clothespins in a milk jug, the battle raged! Team members used frisbees to fill buckets with beach water, raced with beach balls between their legs, and played Head Hip Cup. We ended the competition with a fierce round of Tug-of-War.

a frsibee filled with water-family style cousin camp

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Supper that night was a Mexican Fiesta in honor of our grandson’s ninth birthday. After tacos and salsa, we played Pass the Hot Pinata and then took turns swatting a large piñata filled with candy.

 

pinata-family style cousin camp pass the pinata-family style cousin camp

 

On our last beach day, teams scrambled to photograph items for a beach scavenger hunt. They found everything from a red beach chair to a piece of seaweed.

 

scavenger hunt list-family style cousin camp

 

Then each team created a sand volcano and made it erupt with a mixture of baking soda and vinegar.

 

sand volcano erupting-family style cousin camp

 

To conclude our beach activities, we played a round of Limbo.

 

playing limbo-family style cousin camp

 

After a delicious hot dog bar for supper, we played a game of beach charades. At that point the scores of all three teams were neck-and-neck, so the game determined the final winners.

 

score card

camp champs
Homemade trophies for the winning team!

Family-style cousin camp for the win!

By the time we posed for one last group photo on the morning of our departure, the verdict was in. Camp CeCe Cousin Camp on the Beach had been a roaring success. For four solid days not one argument, bad attitude, or tear had made its way into camp. And all the adults had laughed, competed, and spent time catching up with one other.

 

group photo

 

A quick poll among the grandchildren left next year’s Camp CeCe Cousin Camp hanging in the balance. Would they prefer a kids-only camp or a family-style cousin camp with parents included? The grandchildren were torn between the two options!

So, the verdict is still out about what kind of cousin camp we’ll plan for next year.

But the verdict is in about this year’s family-style Camp CeCe cousin camp.

It was a roaring success!

Cindy Singleton of The Titus Woman

 

 

You can download a copy of my Beach Scavenger Hunt along with some faith-inspiring printables in my free resource library! 

 

 

cousin camp family style-the titus woman

family-style cousin camp

 

 

 

 

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4 thoughts on “Cousin Camp | Family-Style

  1. Kimberly Moore says:

    Camp CeCe is always one of my favorite parts of the summer. Seeing how you bring your family together each year and make it an absolute blast is always a highlight! You and Mike are so fun and those smiles, giggles, and games all prove it. Y’all are so creative and make such wonderful memories for your grandchildren each year! Love and miss y’all!!!

    1. Cindy Singleton says:

      Kim, your words make my heart smile! We had an incredible time this year! One of the funnest weeks of my life. I was afraid Camp CeCe would be ruined this year, and instead it turned into more than I had dreamed of. I honestly wouldn’t change a single thing:) Thanks for reading about it. I miss you!

  2. Hi Cindy!

    I just recently came across your blog while following rabbit trails. I immediately felt drawn in to know more! I am the mother of five and Maw-maw to eight young grandchildren. I have been “Pinteresting” ideas for my dream of Cousins Camp for years! I had never heard of the term before but knew I wanted to create a tradition for the family that in some ways mirrored one of my favorite events of homeschooling years – the annual field and fun day. Cousins Camp was what I came to mind. I love this post and plan to go back and see if there are more like it.

    I also shared your post Discovering a Heart for Hospitality in a group I started last year – The Hospitable Heart. Your words echo my own desire to deepen our experience with genuine hospitality.

    I look forward to perusing your blog and getting to know you (albeit virtually LOL).

    1. Cindy Singleton says:

      Susan,
      What a delight to hear from you!
      Cousin Camp (we call ours Camp CeCe) is one of the best decisions I’ve made as a grandmother! Do it! The memories we’ve made over the years are priceless, and even my 13-year-old grandson is still excited to attend Cousin Camp every year! How wonderful that you have 8 grandchildren as well! You have a built-in camp!
      I’m touched that you shared my blog post. I’ll hop over and visit your website!
      Thanks for reaching out! I love being virtual friends!

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